Non-Binary

Multigender

More than one gender. Two, three, a crowd — held at once or in turns, and all of them yours.

  • One of twenty-eight Non-Binary identities
  • No settled flag
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A shorter entry: the essentials, written to the same standard. The fuller guides are on the main identities.

What it is

Multigender means you have more than one gender. Not a blend of two into a third thing — several, each complete. The LGBTQIA+ Wiki defines it as experiencing two or more genders, and treats it as both an identity you can use on its own and an umbrella that covers bigender, trigender, and so on up to pangender.

The genders can be anything: man, woman, any non-binary gender, a xenogender. They can be present at the same time, or take turns — in which case you may also be genderfluid — or rise and fall in strength, which the wiki files under multiflux. The word polygender is used on the same record as a synonym, and that record traces polygender to a definition written in the mid-1990s, which makes this one of the older non-binary words rather than a recent coinage.

What it is not: one gender with mixed features. An androgyne has one gender that sits between masculine and feminine. A multigender person has more than one, and could, if pressed, count them. It is also not a bio full of labels — the count is real, not decorative.

Pronouns

Many multigender people use more than one set — he and they, she and he, all three — and some switch with whichever gender is loudest that day. Some pick one set for simplicity and do not read it as a betrayal of the others. Ask, and if the answer is a list, use the list.

Does this sound like you?

Someone asks "so which one are you" and the honest answer is "yes".
You have counted. Two, three, more. You may not have told anyone the number.
There are days when all of them are in the room and days when only one is, and neither kind of day feels false.
Bigender fitted until a third one turned up that would not fold into the other two.
You use one name and one set of pronouns in public because it is simpler, and it costs you something every time.
Androgyne never fitted. You are not between things. You are several things.
A form that lets you tick more than one box makes you unreasonably happy.
You have been told this is just indecision. You have been decided about it for years.

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Nearby identities

The distinction is the useful part.

It might not be you if…

  • You have one gender that lives between masculine and feminine. That is androgyne — one thing, mixed, not several.
  • The number is two and it is always two. Bigender is more precise.
  • You are one settled gender that shows up differently in different clothes or company. That is presentation, not a second gender.
  • The labels feel like a collection rather than a count. If you could not say which genders, the word is not doing work yet.

Questions people ask

What is the difference between multigender and polygender?

On the record, none: the LGBTQIA+ Wiki treats them as synonyms for experiencing two or more genders. In practice polygender is the older word and multigender the plainer one. Bigender, trigender and pangender all sit under both.

Can a multigender person be a man or a woman?

Yes — as one of the genders. Man and woman, man and a non-binary gender, woman and agender, three xenogenders: all of it counts. Whether that makes you non-binary or trans is your call; the wiki files multigender under both umbrellas, and plenty of people decline one or the other.

Is multigender the same as genderfluid?

No, though they overlap. Multigender is about how many genders you have. Genderfluid is about whether your gender changes over time. A person can have three genders present all at once and never change; that is multigender and not fluid. A person can move between two; that is both.

Kai Moss Editor (pen name)

Last updated · How these pages are written and checked

No flag is shown because none is settled. Text: written from how people who use the word Multigender describe it.

Sources:

  • Multigender — LGBTQIA+ Wiki — Definition (two or more genders), umbrella scope (bigender through pangender), simultaneous vs fluid vs multiflux, polygender as synonym, and the record tracing polygender to a mid-1990s definition. Fetched and read.

This is not a clinical instrument, not a diagnosis, and not evidence of anything about anyone. It describes experiences so you can recognise your own — or rule them out.